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Parakletos - The God of Comfort
Sermon Summary
In this service, Tracy Murfett (Connect Groups Leader) emphasises that God comforts us through the Holy Spirit so that we can, in turn, comfort others, following the example of Jesus who relied on the Holy Spirit for comfort and guidance.
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In this service, Tracy Murfett delved into the profound concept of "Parakletos," the God of comfort, as described in 2 Corinthians 1:1. This passage reminds us that God is the Father of all mercy and the God of all healing counsel. He comforts us in our trials so that we can, in turn, comfort others. This is a crucial aspect of our Christian journey—understanding that our hardships are not just for our growth but also to equip us to support others in their times of need.
We revisited the previous weeks of our series, where we learned about the role of the Holy Spirit as our Comforter. We were reminded that the Christian life is not about being comfortable but about finding joy and trust in God amidst trials. In this sermon, we focused on how we can be "parakleted" by others and how we can be a source of comfort to those around us.
The analogy of the TV series "Alone" was used to illustrate how isolation can be the most challenging aspect of any trial. Just as the participants in the show struggle with being alone, we too can find it hard to endure our struggles without the support of others. This is where the concept of "parakleting" comes in—being present with someone in their suffering, just as God is present with us.
Tracy explored how Jesus Himself relied on the Holy Spirit for comfort during His most challenging times. Whether it was the death of John the Baptist, the pressure from the crowds, or His agony in Gethsemane, Jesus sought comfort through prayer and then went on to perform miraculous acts. This model of seeking comfort from God and then extending that comfort to others is what we are called to emulate.
We also discussed the barriers that prevent us from comforting others, such as fear, bitterness, and self-righteousness. These barriers can be overcome by relying on God's promises and His presence. We are encouraged to pray for the Holy Spirit's guidance and to be prepared to offer the hope we have in Christ to those in need.
Key Takeaways
1. God Comforts Us to Comfort Others
The trials we face are not just for our personal growth but also to equip us to support others in their times of need. This reciprocal relationship of receiving and giving comfort is a cornerstone of our faith. [32:44]
2. Jesus as Our Model
Jesus relied on the Holy Spirit for comfort during His most challenging times. Whether it was the death of John the Baptist or His agony in Gethsemane, Jesus sought comfort through prayer and then performed miraculous acts. This model teaches us to seek God's comfort first and then extend it to others. [39:32]
3. Overcoming Barriers to Comforting Others
Fear, bitterness, and self-righteousness can prevent us from offering comfort. By relying on God's promises and His presence, we can overcome these barriers and be effective comforters. [46:41]
4. The Power of Presence
Sometimes, the most powerful way to comfort someone is simply to be present with them in their suffering. This act of "parakleting" mirrors how God is present with us in our trials. [50:46]
5. Prayer and Preparation
We are encouraged to pray for the Holy Spirit's guidance and to be prepared to offer the hope we have in Christ to those in need. This preparation involves being ready to share the good news of Jesus and to provide practical support. [56:08]
Daily Hope Devotionals
Day 1: Jesus as Our Model
Scripture:
Hebrews 5:7-8
'While Jesus was here on earth, he offered prayers and pleadings, with a loud cry and tears, to the one who could rescue him from death. And God heard his prayers because of his deep reverence for God. Even though Jesus was God’s Son, he learned obedience from the things he suffered. '
https://www.bible.com/bible/116/HEB.5.7-8
Devotional:
Jesus relied on the Holy Spirit for comfort during His most challenging times. Whether it was the death of John the Baptist or His agony in Gethsemane, Jesus sought comfort through prayer and then performed miraculous acts. This model teaches us to seek God's comfort first and then extend it to others. By following Jesus' example, we learn to prioritise our relationship with God, especially in times of distress, and to draw strength from Him to serve others. [39:32]
Reflection:
Reflect on a time when you sought comfort through prayer. How does that experience equip you to help someone else in their time of need?
Prayer:
Thank You Jesus for Your example of praying and then serving others. I pray for Your guidance in serving You this day as I comfort and help those around me.
Amen
Day 2: Overcoming Barriers to Comforting Others
Scripture:
Ephesians 4:31-32
'Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.'
https://www.bible.com/bible/116/EPH.4.31-32
Devotional:
Fear, bitterness, and self-righteousness can prevent us from offering comfort to others. These barriers can be overcome by relying on God's promises and His presence. When we allow these negative emotions to control us, we become ineffective in our ministry to others. However, by trusting in God's word and seeking His guidance, we can break down these barriers and become effective comforters. This involves a conscious effort to let go of our fears and prejudices and to embrace the love and compassion that God has shown us. [46:41]
Reflection:
Identify a barrier that has prevented you from comforting someone in the past. What steps can you take today to overcome this barrier and extend God's comfort to that person?
Prayer:
Lord Jesus, I thank You for Your love, kindness, and forgiveness. Today I give my time to You and ask that You would be in control of it so that I can extend Your love, kindness, and forgiveness to those around me.
Amen
Day 3: The Power of Presence
Scripture:
Romans 12:15
‘Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep. '
https://www.bible.com/bible/116/ROM.12.15
Devotional:
Sometimes, the most powerful way to comfort someone is simply to be present with them in their suffering. This act of "parakleting" mirrors how God is present with us in our trials. Being present means offering a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, or just sitting in silence with someone who is hurting. It’s a tangible expression of God's love and a reminder that they are not alone. This presence can provide immense comfort and hope, even when words fail. [50:46]Reflection and Action:
Think of someone who is currently going through a difficult time. How can you be present for them this week, offering your support and comfort?
Prayer:
Lord, I think of those who I know are having a difficult time right now. I pray for Your comfort and peace to wash over them. Help me to organise time with them so that I can support them however they need it.
Amen.
Day 4: Finding Joy in Trials
Scripture:
Colossians 4:2-3
'Devote yourselves to prayer with an alert mind and a thankful heart. Pray for us, too, that God will give us many opportunities to speak about his mysterious plan concerning Christ. That is why I am here in chains. '
https://www.bible.com/bible/116/COL.4.2-3
Devotional:
We are encouraged to pray for the Holy Spirit's guidance and to be prepared to offer the hope we have in Christ to those in need. This preparation involves being ready to share the good news of Jesus and to provide practical support. By staying connected to God through prayer, we become more attuned to the needs of others and more equipped to respond effectively. This readiness to serve is a vital aspect of our Christian walk, enabling us to be vessels of God's love and comfort. [56:08]
Reflection:
How can you incorporate regular prayer into your daily routine to prepare yourself to offer comfort and hope to those in need? What specific steps can you take to be more attuned to the Holy Spirit's guidance?
Prayer:
Holy Spirit, I take this moment to seek You. I pray that You would open my eyes and ears to Your guidance for this day. Prepare me to bring Your comfort and others.
Amen
Day 5: The Importance of Solitude
Scripture:
Luke 5:16
'But Jesus often withdrew to the wilderness for prayer. '
https://www.bible.com/bible/116/LUK.5.16
Devotional:
In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it's easy to get caught up in the noise and distractions that surround us. Yet, even Jesus, who was fully God and fully human, recognized the importance of withdrawing to solitary places to pray. This simple yet profound act of seeking solitude in prayer is a powerful reminder for us today.
Jesus often withdrew to lonely places. This wasn't a one-time event but a regular practice. He understood the need to step away from the demands of the crowd to find a quiet place where He could connect with the Father. In our busy lives, we too need to find those moments of solitude to recharge and refocus. Just as Tracy mentioned, "Jesus proactively prayed and sought counsel and comfort in order to comfort others" [39:32]
Action:
Just as Jesus often withdrew to pray, make it a habit to spend time in prayer regularly. Start with a few minutes each day and gradually increase the time as you grow more comfortable.
Identify a quiet place where you can retreat daily to spend time in prayer. It could be a room in your house, a spot in your garden, or even a quiet corner in a park.
Reflection:
How can you increase your time in prayer each day?
Where can you regularly go to have a time of solitary prayer?
Prayer:
Jesus, thank You for showing me the importance of seeking solitude in prayer. Help me to find those quiet moments in my busy life to connect with You. Equip me with Your Holy Spirit's power, words, and discernment. May I find comfort and strength in Your presence, and may I be a source of comfort to others. In Jesus' name, Amen
Day 6: Satisfaction in God
Scripture:
Deuteronomy 31:7-8
'Then Moses called for Joshua, and as all Israel watched, he said to him, “Be strong and courageous! For you will lead these people into the land that the Lord swore to their ancestors he would give them. You are the one who will divide it among them as their grants of land. Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord will personally go ahead of you. He will be with you; he will neither fail you nor abandon you.” '
https://www.bible.com/bible/116/DEU.31.7-8
Devotional:
Moses is passing the mantle of leadership to Joshua. It's a pivotal moment filled with both promise and responsibility. Joshua is about to lead the Israelites into the Promised Land, a task that is daunting and filled with uncertainties. Yet, Moses reassures him with powerful words: "Be strong and courageous... It is the Lord who goes before you. He will be with you; he will not leave you or forsake you."
Moses emphasised that God would not only go before Joshua but also be with him. This dual assurance of God's presence is crucial. We are never alone in our struggles or triumphs. The Holy Spirit, our Comforter, is always with us, guiding and supporting us through every step of our journey. When we trust in God's presence and His promises, we can face our challenges with confidence and peace. [38:09]
Reflection:
Reflect on how God is with you in every situation – even your worst moments – and right now. Take a moment to acknowledge His presence and lean on His promises.
Prayer:
Heavenly Father, thank You for Your promise to go before me and to be with me. Help me to be strong and courageous, knowing that You will never leave me or forsake me. Give me the confidence to trust in Your presence and the compassion to comfort others as You have comforted me. In Jesus' name, Amen.
Day 7: Surrendering to God's Will
Scripture:
James 1:2-4
'Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy. For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing. '
https://www.bible.com/bible/116/JAS.1.2-4
Devotional:
In our journey of faith, we often encounter trials and tribulations. These moments can be challenging, but the book of James offers us a profound perspective on how to approach them. James encourages us to understand that perseverance through trials must finish its work so that we may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.
Our trials are not without purpose. They are shaping us into the people God wants us to be. Through these experiences, we grow in character, wisdom, and faith. We become more like Christ, who Himself endured great suffering for our sake.
Reflection:
Is it a particularly difficult time for you right now? Lean on God's strength and the support of your faith community.
Can you see changes in your character that have happened because of your journey of faith through trials?
Prayer:
Heavenly Father, thank You for the trials that test and strengthen my faith. Help me to find joy in these challenges, knowing that You are using them to shape me into the person You want me to be. Give me the perseverance to endure and the wisdom to trust in Your plan. May I grow in maturity and completeness, lacking nothing, as I walk this journey of faith with You. In Jesus' name, Amen
